I heard this sentence from a chinese song: When a man tear's, he's twice as hurt as when he bleeds. Well, i find this sentence very meaningful though, so girls out there when a guy actually cry's for you... u know how much he's really hurt. But then again, nobody can control feelings.. if its really meant to be... somehow it'll just come back again. This is what i believe in. BE a good person.. cause, right in the end.. i don't think god will ill-treat someone who has a heart of gold. So then, if u really want things to be good, it should be easy.